CARING! SHARING! :

I am very sorry for a long gap in addition of words on my blogspot...I lost my concentration on blogging as am struggling a lot with Engineering. Actually I don't even touch my books..in fact I don't have any books at all..but the pressure I apply on myself is not letting me to make use of my free time effectively. I don’t want to blame anyone; I know very well that I am responsible for whatever happens in my life! I wrote this in my Computer Programming lab…
Apart from the usual fields I would like to share some emotional views of mine with you. I’ve not discussed these things with any of my friends or relatives and even if I share, every word of mine will go to trash! From my experience I inferred something which disappointed me to a greater extent :)If you want people to recognize you as a valid person and consider your suggestions, you better have some secrets with you. Don’t share every experience of you with all. Customize every status of and limit the accessibility of your mind and heart to a greater extent. Don’t expect others to understand you. Some may understand and some may not.
Even if a guy/girl rejects you or hesitate to respond, never worry.. Have a heart which is fragile only for a few. I’ve done the mistake of making my eyes float for others. Most of the people around us don’t deserve our tears. Allow only a selected group of people to affect your heart. Have a heart which is capable of bearing rejections, failures and loss of relationships. Here is a thought which may help us in many situations “relationships are like buttons don’t worry if u lose one but make sure that they didn’t damage your shirt”.
Many times this world is an imperfect mirror. So never expect love, care, help (in any form), and response from others but never stop loving. I know the pain of not being loved….spend some time daily, for you, be silent wherever needed and never stop your flow of words wherever necessary. Speak with you and ask some questions about your behavior, way of life and future. For about three years I always say that I am highly feared of my future and even now after completing an year in engineering I am highly confused about planning a good future. So know yourself better and discuss with your parents about your field of interest and your positives and negatives. Try to make them happy which will surely boost you. Never accept anything in your path of life if you don’t deserve it. Stay away from dislikes and stay calm and composed to be happy.
The best way to stay away from problems is cultivating the habit of saying no. do not over react in any situation and don’t show your emotions to the world often. The world will make use of your emotions. The world is waiting at your doorstep to make money out of one’s problems. Try to solve your problems in a simple manner. Make your own philosophy of life …and make it simpler and never project your problems. If you do so you will be stamped as a mourner. Everyone will be a hero for at least one this world. Have this in mind and encourage yourself and this self encouragement will surely help in leading a happy life…
Every life of mankind will get suppressed and depressed in a certain stage of life, try overcoming the depression with the help of love and praise you for being good in some aspect. Imagine that everyone likes you for the positive part of you but this imagination is definitely an imagination for all but this will surely make you feel happy. The most important thing is that this world never accepts one who points out the mistakes. So better don’t care of others mistakes because your caring words will be mostly buried. Never lose your confidence at any cause, this world is wide and vast...we have miles to go before we sleep.......!!!


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